Monday, May 7, 2012

A Shout Out to My Aunt Sue

A long, long time ago, my Aunt Sue took me to my first hockey game.  I wish that I could say I remembered the actual experience, that specific game itself or the overwhelming largeness I likely felt as such a small girl in a crowd of close to 17,000 people, but I don’t.  I wish I could say that I still had the ticket stub or that I could share a picture of the two of us together on that day, but I can’t.  What I can safely say though is that game was the start of my love of a certain sport and a true sense of bonding between my Aunt and I that has lasted for decades.

Why am I telling this story right now?  Well, as you know I received my proof copy of my book a few weeks ago and gave it the thumbs up.  I ordered a stack of copies, signed and packed them up. Smiling, I sent them out the door, excited for the recipients to get them.  And then it hit me like a ton of bricks. 

I didn’t specifically thank my Aunt for her inspiration and infectious enthusiasm for the Bruins.  I didn’t thank her for taking me to that very first game.  I didn’t thank her in the acknowledgements page for all the games we attended together since then; for the countless hours of talking all things black and gold.

And that is a downright huge fuck up on my part.  Because the truth is that my Aunt Sue was, and still is, one of the largest inspirations for me and why I felt compelled to tell Sara’s story in the first place.  She is the original hockey fan!  The original Boston girl, lover of all sports!

Sue was there when I found the perfect parking spot on Friend Street the night I did the research as we entered through the West Entrance of The Garden, something integral that made it into the book.  And the photo at the bottom of this post was taken that night.

Sue and I sat in one or the other of our cars together (in the other perfect parking spots that we got numerous times after that) until six o’clock when we could plug the meter in order to avoid possibility of a ticket.  We’d chat and laugh and just catch up on our lives during those times.  And I have to say it’s one of the things I miss the most about not being able to go to games together now that I moved out here to Arizona.

Sue and I shared a once in a lifetime kind of moment in 2011 when we sat in the second to last row of The Garden as the Bruins swept the Philadelphia Flyers in game 4 of the playoffs on their road to the Cup.  And then we, of course, went to the Cup parade when they won it all!

Sue answered my countless questions about the new rules after the most recent NHL lockout.  She also answered my countless questions on game play when I got back into the game after many years of not watching hockey.

Sue and I for the past few seasons have live-chatted almost every Bruins game and sometimes even had the chance to get together and have dinner at her house or ours to watch the ones we didn’t have the fortune of attending.  When we were back in Boston last November we went to a game together.  By chance the Bruins were here playing the Coyotes last December and we planned her visit to Phoenix around going to the game together.

Where was all of this in my head when I was writing out that page?  I can only hope she understands how much I’ve enjoyed all our time together and how much her love of this game of luck and skill inspired a character in my imagination.  I can only hope she understands how much it means to me.

Thank you Sue, if it wasn’t for your inspiration and friendship along the way of this journey this book never could have been.  I love you

8 comments:

Judi FitzPatrick said...

Awesome!

Wflynnaz said...

Ok... totally crying! Beautiful sister! I love you and Sue, I love you too!!

Alice said...

Well, that is one hell of an acknowledgement. And you can always include it in your NEXT book : )

Jenn Flynn-Shon said...

Thanks ladies ♥

Insomniac #4 said...

This was a great 'shout out'; your Aunt Sue is awesome! Don't feel too bad for not thanking her in the book, because there's probably no way you could have fit all of this in the acknowledgements or anywhere else. I wish I had an Aunt like her to explain all the rules to me; I learned about hockey completely on my own and there's a lot of holes in my knowledge with respect to strategies and gameplay--holes that your chapter titles are filling in!

The story of my first NHL game is kind of a boring one, but I'll tell you a quick anecdote about my wife's 1st game. She was a Bruins fan in HS, just before the Devils became the mighty powerhouse that they are today ;-) so her dad got her tix to a B's-Devils game for her bday. The Devils were playing out the string so they called up some 19 yr old goalie no one had ever heard of. Some kid named... Brodeur. Yeah. Her first NHL game was also the great #30's. How lucky is that?

Rosebud Collection said...

Oh Jenn..I love this write up..it touched my heart..but I am all about family..nothing I love more.
Beautiful picture and beautiful people..xoxoCarolyn

FitzyFotos said...

What comes around...

Our Aunt Agnes took me to my first Bruins game. Sue, Judi and I (along with a number of friends) used to watch all the games in Agnes's room with her during the Orr, Bucyk, Esposito, Hodge, McKenzie, Sanderson, et al years.

kbailey said...

Sue is a love. That's about all I can say, although that is a total lie. I could say much much more. She helped me get through a very tough time working as a nurse, and validated the facts of the matter, the fact that this was pretty much an impossible situation. So thankful for what she did and said and so thankful I get to "watch you guys watch" the games. She also introduced me to you, Jenn, and you give me hope that someday I will be signing and boxing and smiling about my own book. :)